My Friends And Their Funny Little Ways…
To whomever sent me that box of…er…protection…your optimism regarding my sex life is greatly appreciated.
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October 7th, 2006 My Friends And Their Funny Little Ways… To whomever sent me that box of…er…protection…your optimism regarding my sex life is greatly appreciated.
October 6th, 2006 Whirled ![]() Two panels from "Dope Rider and the Crescent Queen"
©1976 by Paul Kirchner
So for years now…34 years to be exact…I’ve been throwing these little messages in a bottle out into the world, where, hopefully, they would eventually find there way to a certain someone. So what happened between us back when we were both teenagers is pretty central to who I am today. So I finally got a reply. After 34 years of searching for him I finally found him. So we talked. For just over an hour we talked. You have to expect that 34 years is a lot of time for things to happen. And things did happen. Many things he told me about. And many things I can only guess at from what he would only allude to. He sounds just like he always did. It was like picking up the phone and talking to him back in 1972. It was eerie. It was wonderful. It was thrilling. It was disturbing. He’s the same guy he was back then. And he’s different. And things have happened in 34 years. Many things.
And I feel like…a gently whirling dust devil just suddenly smacked into me and threw parts of me that no one has ever touched or disturbed in 34 years reeling into the air, scattered across the sky, and now I’m just standing here becalmed, watching it all lazily settle back down, and I know it will still be me when it does, but different, and I don’t know what will happen next because those parts of me ran so old and so deep and so still… "How do I get to Tucumcari?"
October 5th, 2006 Not In Purgatory Anymore… Just so my friends know… I got a response to one of my messages in a bottle this afternoon. Finally. After so long… You walk in an empty landscape under an endless sky. The earth under your feet is flat, hard, solid rock. Ahead of you is cliff, overlooking a great valley. There are mountains on the horizon. So far away. And…what looks like, perhaps, a city in the distance. Just at your feet is a pool of water, in a small hollow in the rock. Its surface is unnaturally calm. Look down into it. You see your reflection. It is deceptively clear. You see yourself, here, now. As you are. Right this moment. You see every detail of your face, sharp and crystal clear, looking back at you. But unlike most people who come this way, to look into this pool, you know that this is not all there is to you. There is more. The rest of you is there, in the darkness below the surface. You know this. Reach a hand into the water. Did you slack through most of your life? Did you walk it with your eyes closed? Your mind blissfully content with the moment? Never questioning. Never doubting. Never wondering? Then the pool is quite shallow. Your hand reaches the bottom soon, and encounters only the same hard smooth rock you have just walked across. But if you kept your eyes open, and your mind active, and your heart engaged, then it is quite deep. Your hand does not touch bottom no matter how far into it you reach. The water is cold. It is dark. It is deathly still. Reach down as far as you can. Then stir the water. Just a little. Careful. The reflection of you, here, now, ripples away. Watch. Something else, something from deep down in the pool, shimmers up to take its place. Be ready for what you see.
The Open Sewer That Wants To Remake America In Its Image…(Continued) It comes to this: The republican machine is going after the teenagers Mark Foley was sexually exploiting. That’s right. Not the leadership that did nothing. Not the people who tried to cover it all up. They’re going on the offensive against the kids, as though all of this is their fault. Well I guess we can put a fork in the republican party now…because it’s done. For decades they waged a long bitter battle to gain total control of the federal government. They told us the liberals were wicked, immoral, godless, anti-American, anti-family. They said democrats were corrupt tax and spend big government pigs, lining their pockets with money taken from hard working people. They waged a scorched earth campaign for power. And then they got it. And look at them now. What most of us with a functional conscience and a sense of basic human decency see as the sexual exploitation of teenage congressional pages, the republicans now see only in terms of political warfare. Their pathological hatred of anyone outside of the tribe has so completely gutted them of any sense of decency and humanity, of anything at all beyond the reflexive need to attack liberals and democrats, that they are utterly incapable of seeing the sexual exploitation of teenagers for what it is. They cannot see, cannot even grasp, Mark Foley’s actions apart from the political war. And in the blogosphere, all those fine honorable men who once upon a time fancied themselves liberals, but then supposedly 9-11 changed everything, and who keep on yap, yap, yapping that they didn’t leave the democratic party, it left them…all those fine honorable men with all their ostentatious regard for America and virtue and civilized behavior. What do they do when confronted with a man in their own party who regarded the congressional page pool as his own little sexual buffet? What do they do when confronted with evidence that their party leadership covered up that man’s behavior so as not to rouse the ire of the voters? Well of course…they start attacking the teenagers Foley was hitting on…
You may recall this is generally how the right wing smear machine works. First the smear appears in some obscure nutcase’s blog. Then someone like Drudge picks up on it. Then Instapundit links to it. Then it starts appearing in a few right wing tabloids and magazines. Then the more respectable conservative press gets into it. Then it goes mainstream. Instapundit has been facilitating smear campaigns now for years, and it’s given him a high place in the right wing honor roll. Recently the hack novelist Roger L. (I didn’t leave the democratic party, it left me) Simon formed Pajamas Media to share in some of that glory. It now comes to this: Glenn Reynolds and Roger L. Simon are facilitating child sexual predators, if that’s what it takes to keep the republican party in power. They both know perfectly well that outing this one teenager, will make other teens who have been victimized by congressmen, or anyone else holding a position of authority on Capital Hill think twice before coming forward. It increases the pressure on the entire family to keep the kid’s mouth shut. It Is Supposed To.
Brad DeLong likes to say that the Bush administration is worse then you think, even accounting for the fact that it is worse then you think. But that’s true of all of them…every…single…one of them…in the Bush base. That 35 percent who will support the republican party no matter what. Because there is nothing worse then the prospect of a democratic congress…not even the sexual exploitation of minors. Not even covering up the sexual exploitation of minors. Garrison Keiller was right…they are republicans first, and Americans second. Every time you think you’ve found the bottom of that cesspool you soon realize that…no…there is no bottom.
October 4th, 2006 King George’s America Via Joshua Marshall… Ah…remember the day when Americans could simply speak their mind to government officals without fear of arrest…?
This being the same vice president (and president) who insist that the president of the United States simply must have the power to arrest, imprison and torture even American citizens, without due process, without any recourse to the courts, on their say-so that they’re suspected of involvement in terrorist activities. The man is lucky he’s not in Gitmo now, and that anyone even knows what happened.
Counting Your Chickens Before They Come Home To Roost Via Atrios… Mission Accomplished Part Deux…
Actually…I am kinda surprised the money was not spent and the celebrations not held. The republicans (and Joe Lieberman…but then, I repeat myself…) seem to think that things are going swimmingly over there and no amount of bloodshed can seem to convince them otherwise.
October 3rd, 2006 Vile. Absolutely Vile. Via Firedoglake… Behold the open sewer that is the republican party today…
Swell. Just swell. They have a uTube up of the press conference at Firedoglake, and the still clearly shows Reynolds surrounded by a room full of very small children and a few other adults. So. We have one congressional republican using kids for Internet sex, and another one using them as literally human shields to deflect hard questions from the press. I don’t think America can take much more of all this Family Values stuff. Years from now…when hopefully this episode in American history is just a bad dream…take this one thing away from it if you take away nothing else: It isn’t the quest for virtue and morality and values that turns people into this. It’s the belief that you embody those things. It isn’t power that corrupts absolutely…it’s arrogance.
Pathetic…Just…Pathetic Via AmericaBlog… Mark Foley, Congressman…
Uhm…Mark… You’re a Lawmaker… Okay…at least one of these teens wasn’t nearly as embarrassed by this as the other one was. But there is still no excuse. What a kid may want to do with an adult is one thing. But part of being an adult is you know what your responsibility to kids is. And Foley was a lawmaker. That’s (if you’ve read your Constitution lately) what congress does. So…to recap…Foley walks away from a vote in progress, to have IM sex with a teenager, and then in another message suggests they all get together at his house for a little underage drinking where they might not get busted for it. Sweet. If either one of those kids grows up to be a responsible adult they won’t have Mark Foley to thank for setting an example. And…not anyone in the republican leadership either. So remind me again, what is the value to young Americans to serve as congressional pages? I can see the value to the republican congress easy enough. Free labor…a handy pool of awe stricken kids who are easily manipulated into having sex…
This Is The Thanks We Get For Being Too Nice To You Homos And the unsurprises just keep on coming… Another cog in the republican Mighty Wurlitzer, The Wall Street Journal, says the blame for the Foley scandal rests squarely with all this PC tolerance of homosexuality crap republicans are having to put up with these days…
So is the Wall Street Journal calling for a ban on gay congressmen then, on those same grounds? That was a rhetorical question. Without a doubt they would if they thought they could get away with it. As if this was rocket science. All you have to do to grasp the magnitude of the failure on the part of the republican leadership is ask yourself if any warning flags should have been raised if a heterosexual congressman made comments about a female page’s body, and asked for pictures of her friend. I’ll bet most parents of teenage daughters would instantly pick up on the subtext of that kind of email. You don’t need to set different standards of behavior for gay adults. Just treat them the same as any heterosexual in a similar context. I know…I know…it’s Capital Hill. Maybe they just need to set a minimum age of 70 to be a congressional page, or at least to be a republican page. Joshua Marshall has this from a reader…
[Emphasis mine] All these fuckers had to do was look into the matter. That’s fucking all. Didn’t matter if it was a heterosexual congressman or a gay one. If it looked even vaguely inappropriate all they fucking had to do was look into it. Maybe it amounts to nothing and then they just quietly drop it. But all they fucking had to do was lift their little finger and look into it and they didn’t. It took ABC one day, just one fucking day, to get to the rest of the horrid story. To blame all this on PC coddling of homosexuals is grotesque. But then the Wall Street Journal’s editorial page is pretty much the same kind of creeps that are in the republican leadership. That Wall Street Journal editorial fairly drips with longing for the old days. Back in the 1950s a scandal like this would have resulted in gay purges and witch hunts from one end of the country to the other, and these right wing louts are probably crying in their beer right this moment that it isn’t happening now, that America has matured enough regarding homosexuality that it isn’t going to go into wholesale convulsions of anti-gay hate for what one pathetic closet case republican did. Now all the old guard can do is piss and moan about political correctness while the rest of the nation looks on appalled at this complete failure of oversight on the part of a party that’s made Family Values its pet issue, and wonders, rightly, just how safe their children are from heterosexual republicans. There’s not a single person in the republican leadership who signed on to the Adam Walsh Act who isn’t involved somehow in this coverup.
Mirror…mirror… Via This Modern World… Two Peas In A Pod…
Cardinal Law, meet Speaker Hastert. You’d think Watergate would have taught at least the republicans that it isn’t the crime, it’s the coverup that kills you. But then this is the party that wanted to do Vietnam all over again in Iraq. Joshua Marshall at Talking Points Memo is positively astonished by what he’s seeing now…
Well…they’ve been they’ve been deliberately rousing the passion of the mob against democrats for their support for civil liberties, and women’s and gay rights. And in particular, they’ve been playing the Homosexual Menace card as a way to drive their base to the polls. This is what they were doing in the swing states last election…
The entire religious right machine has been doing this for decades now, because their polling tells them that anti-gay hate will motivate a certain group of voters more then Any of their other pet causes. More then abortion. More then prayer in school. More then creationism. So the religious right has been carefully, meticulously stoking that hatred for decades. It funds anti-gay propaganda mills like Paul Cameron, to churn out one hysterical lie after another about the homosexual menace. Ex-gay ministries like Exodus and Love In Action would have gone out of business long ago, were it not for the lifesaving injection of funds by religious right powerhouses like James Dobson’s Focus On The Family. They exist today, not to save homosexuals from The Gay Lifestyle, but to allow heterosexuals to continue denying their gay and lesbian neighbors equal rights without a guilty conscience. Anti-Gay hate has been a gold mine to them, in terms of money and votes, in a way nothing else ever could be. And in the process, stoked a terrible hatred and contempt toward a portion of the human family, with utterly no concern whatsoever about the inevitable bloodshed, death and heartbreak. They would pile our bodies up in stacks like cords of firewood if they had to, so long as it got them votes. And money. And now that Frankenstein’s Monster is looking at them. Well…at the republicans. In the panic on Capital Hill, it must really gall the republican leadership to watch various religious right figures distancing themselves from All Those Corrupt Politicians, as if they hadn’t all been playing this game of Hate For Power together all these years. And they know they don’t dare point their fingers back at the ministers of hate for any of this. But the religious right has it’s own gallery of Mark Foleys to account for. Just ask Cardinal Bernard Law. Or…this guy…
At least Swaggart’s prostitutes were of age. I think. But the same reckless disregard for human sexuality that drove Mark Foley away from a life as an out and proud gay man, and into the chat rooms of teenaged boys, keeps driving one man of the cloth after another into their local red light districts, year after year after year. It’s a vicious cycle of teaching people to be ashamed of their sexual nature, and that shame warping their sex lives, making them even more ashamed, and ready to be manipulated. And thus shame turns into money…and votes. Mark Foley is not the monster here…let’s get that clear. He’s a profoundly disturbed man, but he is no monster. The monsters are the harvesters of shame. The players who know Exactly what they’re doing when they teach people to fear and loath their sexual nature, coldly unconcerned with the human wreakage it causes so long as there is money to be had, and votes to be counted. They could teach a healthy respect for human nature, for sexual desire, and how to deal with it responsibly, and honorably, and break the cycle of shame and abuse. Think of a world where kids didn’t have to be afraid of adults. Now think of the kind of person who could not survive in a world without shame, who would gladly unleash a hundred Mark Foleys on the teenagers of the world, so long as it meant more shame, more dollars in the collection plate, more votes on election day. There’s your monster.
October 2nd, 2006 I’m Shocked…Shocked…And…Trolling For Votes… Via Fark.Com… Mark Foley’s Greatest Hits…June 2003 edition…
Well your chances of holding any office at all are pretty slim now aren’t they?
Yes…But Democrats Are Homo Lovers… Le Dance Pathetique…as choreographed by Ben Stein… Un…
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And Speaking Of Closet Cases That Shouldn’t Be Allowed Anywhere Near Kids… Via Firedoglake…the unsurprises just keep on coming. Here’s another republican operative and closet case, Matt Drudge, on the despicable predatory sexual behavior of…wait for it…teenage boys …
Well we’ve got the whole story on you Matt, now don’t we?
Well those shameless young hussies. Strutting their stuff in front of that poor closet case of a wack job republican congresscritter. Maybe next congress they’ll put them all in burkas just in case there are any grown adults on capital hill who can’t fucking control their libidos, let alone can’t remember that part of being an adult is Fucking Setting A Goddamn Example! Obviously the difference between an adolescent and a child is that the teenager is becoming sexually mature. But the operative word there is becoming. At Minimum it is not the prerogative of grown adults to indulge that sexual inexperience and immaturity, to push a kid’s buttons when the kid is only just discovering that the buttons are even there to begin with, for the sake of their own greedy selfish urges…I won’t even dignify it with that beautiful word desire. Jesus Christ Almighty! Adults are supposed to be teaching and encouraging kids at that stage in their lives how to Fucking Manage Their Sexual Nature Responsibly And Honorably not exploiting their inexperience, their naivety, their adolescence, for pleasure, like they’re some kind of sexual junk food. At long last, at long fucking last, is there Anyone left in the republican party that knows how to be an adult? I can see where a kid would be positively creeped out by what Foley was doing. But I’m 53 years old now, and I can see something else perfectly well: how deliberately, how calculatedly Foley was pushing that kid’s buttons. There is no mistaking it for what it is. Foley was taking sexual advantage of that kid…even if at that point he hadn’t laid a fucking hand on him. I can see how a kid would be creeped out. But as an adult I can see something more. At our age (Foley is a year younger then me it seems) even a guy who has very little life experience knows perfectly well where those buttons are, and just how to push them. That’s what’s so disturbing. Foley is sexually manipulating that kid and the kid sort-of seems to realize it, but he’s still too young to really grasp what’s going on the way a mature adult can. And the profound embarrassment lurking just behind that kid’s words are palpable to me. Drudge it seems, can only see the surface bravado…but not the heart…of a kid. Why is that not surprising? Are they fucking all a bunch of sociopaths in the republican establishment?
The Open Sewer That Wants To Remake America In Its Image…(Continued) It appears that at least some of the page boys were warned to keep a good safe distance from Foley. That is…only the republican page boys…
Well isn’t that…unsurprising…
What The Closet Buys You Mark Foley, co-author of the Internet Child Protection Act, supported by the National Center For Missing and Exploited Children, is discovered having Internet Chat Room Sex with a 16 year old former congressional page boy. At one time he had an 84 percent rating from the Christian Coalition. He’d voted for the Defense Of Marriage Act, refused to commit to repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, and after being outed by a reporter for the Advocate, offered lukewarm opposition to the Federal Marriage Amendment. He consistently refused to acknowledge his sexual orientation, even as it was an open secret on Capital Hill. But in the world of republican virtue and morals, being homosexual is alright, so long as you’re ashamed of it, so long as you keep your sexuality in the shadows, in the gutter, where they think it belongs…
And so it goes…
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