This is making the rounds on certain social media sites…

It’s a good reminder. More than one classmate from my past has surprised me by declining when I offered them a lovely German ice wine as a Christmas gift, and I was embarrassed for making assumptions, especially given my religious upbringing. I think the second time I did that really drove it home: Do not assume. 

People can have many reasons for not drinking. Maybe they’re on the wagon, maybe it’s a religious thing. Having been raised in a Yankee Baptist household, I can appreciate the religious reasons even if I don’t buy into it anymore. Skepticism regarding alcohol is a Good Thing actually. But as is said above, it’s not really any of my business why, and it’s good to keep it in mind during the holidays, especially as New Year approaches. 

I drink, but sparingly. I don’t seem to have the gene that makes beer taste good, and spirits, which I prefer, have always had an exaggerated effect on me. That was great when I was younger because it meant I didn’t have to spend a lot to get thoroughly toasted on good stuff which doesn’t come with a killer hangover. But as I got older it became tiresome. Literally. In my 60s two stiff drinks and I just want to go to sleep. I’m 70 now, and having more than one drink at a time, or one drink on consecutive days, makes me very fatigued. I might also get heart flutters.

I accept this and dole it out accordingly. The point being just because you know that someone partakes it doesn’t mean they’re up for it right then so don’t assume. Ask please, and don’t push it if I say no thanks. I may have already had my couple drinks for that week.

Sweet ice tea is Always acceptable.