May 2nd, 2020
Gay Country Music Is Finally A Thing…
…and it’s cutting me to ribbons.
No offence to the singer here, Ty Herndon, who came out last year and changed the pronouns of this song, which was a hit in its previous incarnation. It’s wonderful in so many ways. That he found the courage to come out and live an honest life. That he updated this song with the pronouns that reflect how his heart saw the song when it first came to him. That gay kids and adults can hear music that speaks directly to us. So long have I mentally flipped a pronoun or two while listening to pop music, to at least imagine it speaking to me.
But for reasons I won’t go into now…or maybe ever…this particular song is both wonderful and devastating. Now I need a drink…