{"id":9706,"date":"2018-01-23T12:32:33","date_gmt":"2018-01-23T17:32:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/?p=9706"},"modified":"2018-01-23T12:32:33","modified_gmt":"2018-01-23T17:32:33","slug":"that-is-now-this-was-then","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/9706","title":{"rendered":"That Is Now, This Was Then&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 class=\"headline heading-content margin-8-top margin-16-bottom\" style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ew.com\/theater\/2018\/01\/22\/the-boys-in-the-band-broadway-jim-parsons-zachary-quinto-matt-bomer\/\"><em>The Boys in the Band<\/em>\u00a0stars\u00a0Jim Parsons, Zachary Quinto, and Matt Bomer on bringing play to Broadway<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>Put this down, I reckon, in the same category as I&#8217;m trying to get used to hearing the word &#8220;queer&#8221; as something other than a homophobic slur. I absolutely detested this play. And yet, seeing this group of proud out gay actors taking it on and making it theirs made me want to go watch them do it. I hated everything about this play, and especially its overall tone that so it goes for such as us. <em>&#8220;If only we could learn not to hate ourselves quite so very much.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And here we are, decades later, and we can marry the one we love, and gay kids can grow up not hating themselves, and seeing happy and whole lives ahead of them. But that is now, this was then&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\u201cWhat I like so much about Boys in the Band is how the play right now reads so much as, \u2018Look at how things have changed and look at how they haven\u2019t,\u2019\u201d Parsons, 44, explains in the above behind-the-scenes video.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019ve come so far in the last 5 years, just legislatively. And yet there\u2019s been this explosion of backward thinking and harmful thinking and political ideology that swept our country,\u201d says Quinto, 40. \u201cWe are responsible for standing up and being acknowledged and celebrating ourselves and celebrating our community in a way that shows these people that are trying to undo the progress that we\u2019ve made that we are not going anywhere.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Adds Crowley: \u201cYou just have to be reminded of how our freedom didn\u2019t exist. We can\u2019t lose it. We can&#8217;t go back. There is no good time to tell it except all times.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>I&#8217;ll accept that, and go watch this play not as an historical document so much as in full agreement with Crowley&#8217;s warning. This is what will happen to us all over again, if things go back, if the Franklin Grahams and Tony Perkins of the world have their way. Yes&#8230;now I can see the play in a different light, now I can see how important it is to keep this play alive.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/the-boys-in-the-band-sm.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-9708\" src=\"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/the-boys-in-the-band-sm.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"368\" srcset=\"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/the-boys-in-the-band-sm.jpg 700w, https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/the-boys-in-the-band-sm-300x158.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/the-boys-in-the-band.jpg\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I bought tickets for the May 12 afternoon performance. Get train tickets and a hotel room within walking distance of it later&#8230;make a New York City weekend of it and take one of my good film cameras because they love Manhattan island very much.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Boys in the Band\u00a0stars\u00a0Jim Parsons, Zachary Quinto, and Matt Bomer on bringing play to Broadway Put this down, I reckon, in the same category as I&#8217;m trying to get used to hearing the word &#8220;queer&#8221; as something other than a homophobic slur. I absolutely detested this play. And yet, seeing this group of proud [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[38,148,12],"class_list":["post-9706","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","tag-gay-history","tag-the-america-that-was","tag-the-struggle-for-our-lives"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9706","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9706"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9706\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9706"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9706"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9706"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}