It’s a stereotype of homophobes that they’re closet homosexuals, acting out of fear of discovery and\/or self loathing. \u00a0 And we’ve all certainly seen evidence in recent years that it’s often true. \u00a0 But it isn’t always.<\/p>\n
This came across my Facebook stream this morning…<\/p>\n
\nAnti-LGBT columnist warns men: Lesbians will have your children and make you slaves<\/a><\/h3>\n
The Council for Marriage Policy (CMP), a Christian anti-LGBT group that is a division of the right-wing Renew America PAC, issued a frantic warning on Friday that if same sex marriage becomes legal in all 50 states, lesbians will trick gay and straight men into fathering their children and turn them into economic slaves. According to Right Wing Watch<\/a>, the 37-pragraph column was written by CMP president David R. Usher and was entitled “Our last chance to save traditional marriage.”<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
On the face of it this is a rant about same-sex marriage, taken to extreme right wing dystopian fantasies. \u00a0 But look closer.<\/p>\n
Usher’s dystopian screed warned that the Supreme Court will create multiple classes of marriage. In a section called “Class 1: Mother-Mother marriages,” he predicted that “[w]hen two women marry, it is a three-way contract among two women and the government. Most women will bear children by men outside the marriage \u00e2\u20ac\u201c often by pretending they are using birth control when they are not.”
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\nGay men, he said, will have the worst time of it under legalized same sex marriage because “[i]n most cases, these men will become un-consenting \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcfathers’ by reproductive entrapment,” although how the devious Class-1 lesbians will accomplish this is left to the reader’s imagination.<\/p><\/blockquote>\nI find his concern touching. \u00a0 But I don’t think what he’s suggesting there is that lesbians will offer to be surrogate mothers for gay male couples and then back out of the deal once they become pregnant. \u00a0 He’s saying there that they’ll lure gay men into having sex with them.<\/p>\n
Now, we gay males are not all perfect Kinsey 6’s, and a lot of us have tried desperately over the course of our lives to be straight, often with hostile clergymen and\/or family members pressuring us into it. It isn’t that a homosexual man can’t have sex with women, it’s that he’d much rather have it with men. \u00a0 But the decent humane society is one that encourages self honesty, trustworthiness, and a habit of truth seeking and truth telling in its own. \u00a0 The decent society also treats its women as the equal of its men, and this is what I think Usher has a problem with. \u00a0 It isn’t homosexuality or even lesbianism specifically.<\/p>\n
Usher writes…<\/p>\n
Men will be forced to labor for the economic benefit of marriages between women \u00e2\u20ac\u201c marriages men have been “redlined” out of \u00e2\u20ac\u201c by the choice of two women who married with intention to have children by men outside the marriage. This approaches the definition of slavery \u00e2\u20ac\u201c and perhaps sexual trafficking or bondage<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
It’s a crude stereotype that gay men are gay because they’re afraid of women. I am not afraid of women nor do I hate them, they were just never on my radar the way they are for a straight guy. \u00a0 For most of us, gay and straight, sexual desire is what makes life sweet and we love and cherish the ones that do that to us. \u00a0 But as some never forgive their libidos for making them gay, and go on a never ending warpath against The Homosexual as a proxy for beating up on themselves, some straight guys never forgive their libidos for giving women power over them.<\/p>\n
Usher might well be a closet case but I suspect he’s a straight male supremacist who really hates how a pretty girl can make him all hot and bothered. The homophobia of men like that is really misogyny; gay males draw his contempt for making themselves into woman. That his libido recoils at the thought of having sex with another man makes him feel justified in that contempt. \u00a0 But really, that contempt, or fear, or loathing, or all of it mixed together, is directed at women.<\/p>\n
Usher writes;<\/p>\n
“Progressive terminology morphed from “gay marriage” to “same-sex marriage” over the past five years because the feminist power-agenda is not attached to orientation. The feminist goal has always been to create an institution where any two women can marry each other, have children out of wedlock, and force individuals who cannot be part of the marriage to support it economically, with government as a statutory guarantor.”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Look at that…really look at it. \u00a0 This isn’t about lesbians…it’s not about homosexuality…it’s about women.<\/p>\n
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