{"id":7063,"date":"2013-03-15T10:05:15","date_gmt":"2013-03-15T15:05:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/?p=7063"},"modified":"2013-03-15T13:23:31","modified_gmt":"2013-03-15T18:23:31","slug":"when-the-homosexual-menace-is-your-own-kid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/7063","title":{"rendered":"When The Homosexual Menace Is Your Own Kid"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m reading these headlines yesterday&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/thecaucus.blogs.nytimes.com\/2013\/03\/15\/portman-saying-son-is-gay-now-backs-gay-marriage\/\">G.O.P.&#8217;s Portman, Saying Son Is Gay, Now Backs Same-Sex Marriage<\/a><\/h3>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>And thinking pretty much what Matthew Yglesias tweeted this morning: <em>&#8220;Glad Rob Portman&#8217;s for marriage equality, but wish conservatives could muster empathy for problems that don&#8217;t directly affect their family.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>On the other hand he didn&#8217;t go on a warpath against homosexuality like some conservatives have when they found out they had a gay kid (Hello Phyllis Schlafly&#8230;William Knight&#8230;Alan Keyes&#8230;). \u00a0 Let me make an educated guess here: Portman thinks love is an integral part of marriage.<\/p>\n<p>How many times have you heard them saying in the kook pews, in the context of arguing against marriage for same-sex couples, that marriage isn&#8217;t about love? \u00a0 How many of those are the sort of people who you would expect to have their eyes opened when a child comes out to them? \u00a0 At some point you have to conclude that this entire battle has been over the sanctity of love, and nothing else.<\/p>\n<p>All some people seem to be able to see in the trappings of marriage is the authority part. \u00a0 <em>I now pronounce you&#8230;<\/em> They forget the part about <em>What God has joined&#8230;<\/em> I don&#8217;t think you have to be a believer to see the truth in that. \u00a0 The higher power isn&#8217;t in the part played by the clergyman or whoever is officiating at the ceremony. \u00a0 The ceremony is an act of acknowledgement; a mutual recognition, on the part of everyone concerned, of a fact that has already occurred. \u00a0 The higher power, the actual presiding authority, has already acted. \u00a0 Think of the officiator as a conductor for an ancient score. \u00a0 Public declarations are made, promises sworn between a couple, and between them and their community. \u00a0 <em>We are here to witness&#8230;<\/em> The higher power is love. \u00a0 What it has joined, let no one cast asunder.<\/p>\n<p>What sort of person says that love is not the central fact of marriage? \u00a0 The same sort who throws their gay child out into the streets, that&#8217;s who.<\/p>\n<p>[<em>Update&#8230;<\/em>]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/will_portman_tweet.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7071\" title=\"will_portman_tweet\" src=\"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/will_portman_tweet.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"428\" height=\"142\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m reading these headlines yesterday&#8230; G.O.P.&#8217;s Portman, Saying Son Is Gay, Now Backs Same-Sex Marriage And thinking pretty much what Matthew Yglesias tweeted this morning: &#8220;Glad Rob Portman&#8217;s for marriage equality, but wish conservatives could muster empathy for problems that don&#8217;t directly affect their family.&#8221; On the other hand he didn&#8217;t go on a warpath [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[65],"tags":[16,78,12],"class_list":["post-7063","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-thumping-my-pulpit","tag-marriage","tag-the-struggle-for-america","tag-the-struggle-for-our-lives"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7063","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7063"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7063\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7063"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7063"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7063"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}