{"id":691,"date":"2007-04-17T20:00:07","date_gmt":"2007-04-18T01:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/691"},"modified":"2007-04-17T20:00:07","modified_gmt":"2007-04-18T01:00:07","slug":"he-was-a-loner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/691","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;He was a loner&#8230;&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m shy.&nbsp; Almost deathly so.&nbsp; Not a recluse.&nbsp; I socialize easily with co-workers and neighbors.&nbsp; But it takes time for me to get comfortable opening up to new people.&nbsp; It&#8217;s not that I&#8217;m paranoid or distrustful.&nbsp; I&#8217;m just&#8230;shy.&nbsp;&nbsp; I have friends I regularly go out with.&nbsp; But I live alone.&nbsp; I&#8217;m single.&nbsp; And I&#8217;m shy.&nbsp; Almost never the first one to speak up and introduce myself.&nbsp; It takes wild horses practically, to get me to go to a bar or club by myself.&nbsp; I need friends I can go with.&nbsp; When I&#8217;m with people I know I can let down my hair and have a good time.&nbsp; But in a room full of strangers I just want to run away.&nbsp; This may have something to do with why I&#8217;m still single.&nbsp; And live alone.&nbsp; But I am not a loner.&nbsp; I like my quiet time to myself&#8230;yes.&nbsp; But I enjoy human company too.&nbsp; Very much so.&nbsp; I&#8217;m just&#8230;shy.<\/p>\n<p>Swear to god I cringe every time another mass killing happens&#8230;and next thing you know the news media is all about how the guy was a loner.&nbsp; And&#8230;quiet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m shy.&nbsp; Almost deathly so.&nbsp; Not a recluse.&nbsp; I socialize easily with co-workers and neighbors.&nbsp; But it takes time for me to get comfortable opening up to new people.&nbsp; It&#8217;s not that I&#8217;m paranoid or distrustful.&nbsp; I&#8217;m just&#8230;shy.&nbsp;&nbsp; I have friends I regularly go out with.&nbsp; But I live alone.&nbsp; I&#8217;m single.&nbsp; And I&#8217;m shy.&nbsp; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,1],"tags":[49],"class_list":["post-691","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","category-uncategorized","tag-crime-and-violence"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/691","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=691"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/691\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}