{"id":6690,"date":"2012-12-02T12:53:29","date_gmt":"2012-12-02T17:53:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/?p=6690"},"modified":"2012-12-02T12:57:07","modified_gmt":"2012-12-02T17:57:07","slug":"yes-it-was-a-tragedy-more-specifically-though-it-was-a-murder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/6690","title":{"rendered":"Yes It Was A Tragedy. More Specifically Though, It Was A Murder."},"content":{"rendered":"

I saw the story of that Kansas City Chiefs murder\/suicide fly across my Google news page, and reading the coverage I kept thinking, over and over I am not kidding, what about his girlfriend…?<\/em><\/p>\n

The way that story is being covered, that taken-for-granted focus on the football player and the invisibility of the woman he killed, disgusts me. I read three news stories and I don’t even know the name of the woman he killed. But I know about the man who killed her in detail. Oh, such a tragedy, he was such a tremendous athlete, he had followed his dreams to the NFL…one of the stories I read ended on that note…and so on. But…wait a minute…he killed his lover and his child’s mother<\/em>. Whatever his dreams were, honor and decency didn’t seem to be a part of them. And what of the woman he killed…what of her dreams?<\/p>\n

I’m not saying the people close to this aren’t thinking of her…his team members, his coaches…they probably knew her personally. But…what of the news media? The way they’re reporting this so far as I’ve seen it is pretty disgusting.<\/p>\n

That particular kind of crime completely sickens me, and I don’t understand the reflex I see sometimes to feel sorry for the killer too. \u00a0 How on earth do you lay a hand in anger on the body of the one you have laid down with? \u00a0 Yes, yes…I know lovers quarrel all the time and that’s just human nature. \u00a0 And I know what it is to be dumped, and there is nothing in the world that hurts like it. Nothing. But to strike…let alone murder…it just boggles my mind how you cross that threshold.<\/p>\n

If love is gone within you, never mind the other, then walk away from it man. \u00a0 It can’t hurt so much because you’re still in love, if you’re swinging at them too. If you still loved them the hands that once caressed that body simply would not strike that body. \u00a0 You just couldn’t do it. \u00a0 So just walk away from it man, because that isn’t a broken heart it’s a wounded ego you’ve got, and if that’s all it takes to make you kill then what did you let yourself become. \u00a0 Go away and think about that while you’ve still got a soul worth having.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I saw the story of that Kansas City Chiefs murder\/suicide fly across my Google news page, and reading the coverage I kept thinking, over and over I am not kidding, what about his girlfriend…? The way that story is being covered, that taken-for-granted focus on the football player and the invisibility of the woman he […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[49,21],"class_list":["post-6690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","tag-crime-and-violence","tag-the-abyss"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6690","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6690"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6690\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6690"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6690"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6690"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}