Suicide surge: Schools confront anti-gay bullying<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\nA spate of teen suicides linked to anti-gay harassment is prompting school officials nationwide to rethink their efforts against bullying – and in the process, risk entanglement in a bitter ideological debate.The conflict: Gay-rights supporters insist that any effective anti-bullying program must include specific components addressing harassment of gay youth. But religious conservatives condemn that approach as an unnecessary and manipulative tactic to sway young people’s views of homosexuality.<\/p>\n
It’s a highly emotional topic. Witness the hate mail – from the left and right – directed at Minnesota’s Anoka-Hennepin School District while it reviews its anti-bullying strategies in the aftermath of a gay student’s suicide…<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
What leaps out at you first here is the rote equivocation on the part of this mainstream reporter. \u00a0 Instead of stating what is simply a fact here that religious conservatives insist young people’s views of homosexuals must remain negative<\/em>, its religious conservatives condemn that approach as an unnecessary and manipulative tactic to sway young people’s views of homosexuality<\/em>. \u00a0 Never mind that. \u00a0 Note that its hate mail when it comes both from the homophobes and people outraged at what homophobes are doing to helpless children.<\/p>\nReporters can’t be taking sides after all. \u00a0 Just imagine the national outrage and loathing if the news media was as carefully neutral toward Al Qaeda. \u00a0 We can’t call them terrorists after all, that would be taking sides…<\/em><\/p>\nThis in a nutshell, is why gay kids are dying. \u00a0 The religious right has successfully convinced everyone that brutalizing gays is an essential part of their religious freedom. Hating Jews might raise a few eyebrows. Hating people of color might get them some frowns of disapproval. But to even question that they are and have been for decades now engaged in a systematic campaign of hate mongering, let alone question their need to hate their gay neighbor is apparently a step too far. And the consequence is that gay kids feel as though they have no friends in the adult world. \u00a0 Their need for love and acceptance in this world is of no more importance then the need of bigots to spit in their faces and look the other way while their kids kick them in the stomach. \u00a0 They are alone.<\/p>\n
But if we act aggressively to protect gay kids from bullying we’re taking sides and that just wouldn’t be fair…<\/p>\n
But at least four younger teens have killed themselves since July after being targeted by anti-gay bullying, including Justin Aaberg, 15, of Andover, Minn., who hanged himself in his room in July. His friends told his mother he’d been a frequent target of bullies mocking his sexual orientation.Five other students in his Anoka-Hennepin school district have killed themselves in the past year, and gay-rights advocates say bullying may have played a role in two of these cases as well.<\/p>\n
Carlson, the district superintendent, lost a teenage daughter of his own in a car crash, and says he shares the anguish of the parents bereaved by suicide. He acknowledges that a controversial district policy calling for “neutrality” in classroom discussions of sexual orientation may have created an impression among some teachers, students and outsiders that school staff wouldn’t intervene aggressively to combat anti-gay bullying.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
As we software engineers say, it’s not a bug, it’s a feature…<\/em><\/p>\n[Edited a tad…]<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The problem with directly confronting and dealing with anti-gay bullying is apparently we have to do it in a way that doesn’t make the bullies feel like they’re doing anything wrong… Suicide surge: Schools confront anti-gay bullying A spate of teen suicides linked to anti-gay harassment is prompting school officials nationwide to rethink their efforts […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[65],"tags":[10,32,37,21,46,12],"class_list":["post-4697","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-thumping-my-pulpit","tag-anti-gay-violence","tag-hate","tag-our-feckless-news-media","tag-the-abyss","tag-the-kultar-kampf","tag-the-struggle-for-our-lives"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4697","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4697"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4697\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4697"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4697"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4697"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}