{"id":3381,"date":"2009-03-10T22:01:14","date_gmt":"2009-03-11T03:01:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/?p=3381"},"modified":"2009-03-10T22:01:14","modified_gmt":"2009-03-11T03:01:14","slug":"rod-dreher-a-summary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/3381","title":{"rendered":"Rod Dreher &#8211; A Summary"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>DJW over at Lawyers, Guns and Money <a href=\"http:\/\/lefarkins.blogspot.com\/2009\/03\/dreher-cont.html\">sums it up<\/a>&#8230;.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>In <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/crunchycon\/2009\/03\/cool-to-be-bisexual.html#more\">the post <\/a>Scott <a href=\"http:\/\/lefarkins.blogspot.com\/2009\/03\/crackpot-of-day.html\">mentioned earlier<\/a>, Dreher insists that the jarring juxtaposition that occasioned many readers to question his values and priorities, has been the subject of a significant misinterpretation. It&#8217;s the surprisingness of the &quot;bisexuality is cool&quot; claim that motivated his post, not it&#8217;s relative wrongness.<\/p>\n<p>Many commenters remain, understandably, unpersuaded by his effort to explain his bizarre post. But it&#8217;s necessary to take Dreher at his word to fully grasp the depravity of his position. So let&#8217;s grant him: a) that a remark by one (horribly traumatized) parent is sufficient evidence to to grant that bisexuality is indeed &quot;cool&quot; in the high school culture of one East Texas town, and b) that while this doesn&#8217;t rise to the level of parricide in an index of moral wrongs, it is a disturbing and troubling trend that suggests something that was once right with the world has gone wrong.<\/p>\n<p>The nature of the typical experience of non-heterosexual adolescents in our schools and our society is hardly a secret. The ostracization and bullying of those suspected to be non-heterosexual takes an enormous psychological toll, and has life and death consequences, as evidenced higher rates of depression and suicide amongst non-heterosexual youth. They typically live in fear: fear that something is horribly wrong with them, fear of being rejected by their friends and family, and fear of violence. But: in one small town, at least for some non-heterosexual youth, there&#8217;s a chance this status quo might be changing. For anyone whose moral worldview contains any compassion, changes to this horrific status quo are a sign of hope. For Dreher, it&#8217;s the precise opposite.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Dreher was adamant in that post that he was &quot;so keeping his kids away&quot; from modern American culture, if that meant a toleration of bisexuality&#8230;let alone one supposes homosexuality.&nbsp; But what if one of those poor kids is gay themselves?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tens of thousands of gay kid come of age in that hostile environment every generation and many of them don&#8217;t make it to adulthood alive.&nbsp; And it&#8217;s a fact that many of their parents would actually rather they killed themselves, or were killed, then grew up to be happy, contented gay adults.&nbsp; It doesn&#8217;t take much to imagine where Dreher fits in.&nbsp; He reads a horrific news article about a home invasion massacre, and instead of grieving for the dead kids, their mother, and the father who has to now carry those horrible memories to his grave, he goes on a rant about something the father said offhandedly about how cool bisexuality was in his town.&nbsp; I read something like this and I can&#8217;t get out of my head how horrible their last moments must have been (which is why I avoid crime stories in the newspapers).&nbsp; Dreher, reads it and is just stunned by the fact that bisexuals in one small East Texas town aren&#8217;t hated.\n<\/p>\n<p>This is eminently typical of what hate does to a person&#8217;s conscience.&nbsp; This is the conscience of the culture warriors.&nbsp; Look at it if you have the stomach for it.&nbsp; There is the Pit, grinning back at you.&nbsp; The grotesque indifference to human life in that crime story, and in Dreher&#8217;s callow, superficial response to it, are of a single piece.&nbsp; What is more shocking then the murder of a man&#8217;s entire family?&nbsp; Why&#8230;bisexuality of course.\n<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t look for too long.&nbsp; Nietzsche was right about the dangers of staring into an Abyss.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DJW over at Lawyers, Guns and Money sums it up&#8230;. In the post Scott mentioned earlier, Dreher insists that the jarring juxtaposition that occasioned many readers to question his values and priorities, has been the subject of a significant misinterpretation. It&#8217;s the surprisingness of the &quot;bisexuality is cool&quot; claim that motivated his post, not it&#8217;s [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[65],"tags":[49,32,21,20,90,46],"class_list":["post-3381","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-thumping-my-pulpit","tag-crime-and-violence","tag-hate","tag-the-abyss","tag-the-american-gutter","tag-the-human-gutter","tag-the-kultar-kampf"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3381","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3381"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3381\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3381"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3381"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3381"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}