{"id":2269,"date":"2008-11-14T23:58:01","date_gmt":"2008-11-15T04:58:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/?p=2269"},"modified":"2023-02-04T13:32:35","modified_gmt":"2023-02-04T18:32:35","slug":"reaping-what-you-have-sowncontinued-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/2269","title":{"rendered":"Reaping What You Have Sown&#8230;(continued)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/images\/loving_v_california.jpg\" alt=\" \" width=\"300\" height=\"218\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And the unsurprises just keep on coming.\u00a0 You know the old story about how so many right wing anti-gay warriors turn out to have gay children?\u00a0 Phillys Schlafly?\u00a0 Alan Keyes?\u00a0 Charles Socarides, late of NARTH?\u00a0 Recall how the man who spear headed California Proposition 22, which was the first swing at same-sex marriages back in 2000, Pete Knight, turned out to have had a gay son?\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Isn&#8217;t it interesting how so many of the most vitirolic gay haters have gay children of their own?\u00a0 Like&#8230;they&#8217;re punishing their kids, by waging war on the entire gay community?\u00a0 Like&#8230;all of us have to bleed, because hating their own flesh and blood just isn&#8217;t good enough?\u00a0 Isn&#8217;t it so very&#8230;unsurprising&#8230;that 67 year old Gary Lawrence, Mormon, California State LDS Grassroots Director, and prominent organizer of the Proposition 8 campaign, has a gay son?\u00a0 Surprise, surprise, surprise.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s worth remembering in the wake of Proposition 8, that Mormon abuse of their own gay children has been well known for some time now.\u00a0 If you thought it was tough growing up gay in a Southern Baptist household, just listen to the stories of gay Mormon kids.\u00a0 And&#8230;(Via Pam&#8217;s House Blend), like all the children of the anti-gay culture war, this particular son <a href=\"https:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20110513183815\/http:\/\/www.pamshouseblend.com\/showDiary.do?diaryId=8227\">has his own heartbreaking story to tell<\/a>&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Matthew Lawrence, 28, of Santa Ana, California is just one of approximately 500 people who have contacted Signing for Something ( <a href=\"http:\/\/www.signingforsomething.org\/blog\">http:\/\/www.signingforsomething&#8230;<\/a> )in the last few days to announce his resignation from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints because of the Mormon Church&#8217;s handling of and involvement in the gay marriage issue. \u00a0Matthew is gay and is the son of Gary Lawrence, 67, who is the &#8220;State LDS Grassroots Director&#8221; for the state of California. \u00a0(See <a href=\"http:\/\/yesonprop8.blogspot.com\/2008\/08\/gary-lawrence-grass-roots-coordinator.html\">http:\/\/yesonprop8.blogspot.com&#8230;<\/a> ).<\/p>\n<p>Matthew Lawrence, in an e-mail interview with this diarist, said that although he is &#8220;extremely upset and frustrated&#8221; with his family and that he has &#8220;cut off communication with them,&#8221; that &#8220;at the end of the day, I do love them.&#8221; \u00a0The elder Lawrence was also the Mormon Church&#8217;s point man for the Prop 22 campaign in 2000. \u00a0Matt says, &#8220;I love my family so much, but it&#8217;s hard to not take this personally. \u00a0We had a brief falling-out over Prop. 22, but that got mended. \u00a0But two anti-gay initiatives in eight years, it&#8217;s impossible not to feel attacked.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Matthew was particularly hurt when &#8220;my father said that opponents of Prop. 8 are akin to Lucifer&#8217;s followers in the pre-existence.&#8221; \u00a0(Printed in Meridian Magazine online, and reported in the Salt Lake Tribune <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sltrib.com\/utah\/ci_10797630\">http:\/\/www.sltrib.com\/utah\/ci_&#8230;<\/a> and other newspapers). Matthew&#8217;s plea to his father and others is &#8220;We can all agree to disagree and respect each other&#8217;s informed opinions and decisions, but don&#8217;t put me and Satan in the same sentence please.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This issue isn&#8217;t about gay marriage,&#8221; writes Matthew. &#8221; This is about certain religious factions that believe homosexuality is disgusting, immoral and wrong and needs to be stamped out. . . . \u00a0It&#8217;s a problem to be &#8216;fixed.'&#8221; Matthew writes that his family sent him to multiple counselors during his youth, and even sent him to live with relatives in Utah which he writes was an attempt to &#8220;straighten me out&#8221; by living with what he describes as &#8220;homophobic cousins.&#8221; \u00a0He said while in Utah it wasn&#8217;t unusual for his cousin to call him a &#8220;faggot&#8221; at school and that his &#8220;aunt and uncle did nothing to discourage his behavior.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><em>&#8230;don&#8217;t put me and Satan in the same sentence please.<\/em>\u00a0 Is this too much to ask?\u00a0 Never mind the gay stranger down the street who wears horns every time you set eyes on them.\u00a0 Never mind that same-sex couple you can casually condemn to eternal hellfire because they&#8217;re not part of your own family, but someone else&#8217;s, and it&#8217;s always easy to toss someone else&#8217;s children, someone else&#8217;s loved ones, into the fiery lake for all eternity.\u00a0 Is it too much to ask you to stop demonizing your own children?\u00a0 Is it too much to ask you to stop putting your righteous knives into their hearts too?\u00a0 <em>They want your love&#8230;they Need your love.\u00a0 <\/em>Can you stop putting them side by side with Satan in your eyes?\u00a0 In your hearts?\u00a0 At long last, is this too much to ask?<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; And the unsurprises just keep on coming.\u00a0 You know the old story about how so many right wing anti-gay warriors turn out to have gay children?\u00a0 Phillys Schlafly?\u00a0 Alan Keyes?\u00a0 Charles Socarides, late of NARTH?\u00a0 Recall how the man who spear headed California Proposition 22, which was the first swing at same-sex marriages back [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[24,116,13,21,20,12],"class_list":["post-2269","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-politics","tag-gods-and-monsters","tag-joseph-smiths-talking-hat","tag-religion","tag-the-abyss","tag-the-american-gutter","tag-the-struggle-for-our-lives"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2269","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2269"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2269\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2269"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2269"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2269"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}