NBC Censors Sexual Orientation Of Openly Gay Gold Medalist Diver<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n According to OutSports.com, of the 10,708 athletes at the Olympics this year, just 10<\/a> have identified themselves publicly as being gay. Of the 10, Australian diver Matthew Mitcham is the only male gay athlete.<\/p>\n Yesterday, Mitcham won the gold in the in the 10m platform diving event, scoring an upset over the Chinese team<\/a>, which was heavily favored to win. But as Maggie Hendricks at Yahoo\u2019s Olympics blog notes, NBC never mentioned Mitcham\u2019s orientation<\/a>:<\/p>\n NBC did not mention Mitcham\u2019s orientation, nor did they show his family and partner who were in the stands. NBC has made athletes\u2019 significant others a part of the coverage in the past<\/strong>, choosing to spotlight track athlete Sanya Richards\u2019 fiancee, a love triangle between French and Italian swimmers and Kerri Walsh\u2019s wedding ring debacle.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n As Atrios said the other day: love triangle okay…gay, not so much.<\/p>\n There are two parts to the culture of violence toward gay people.\u00a0 The first is the relentless demonization of gay people.\u00a0 By churches, by religious leaders, by politicians and their parties, by bigots with a platform.\u00a0 The public is told we are a threat to children, to families, to society, to the very existence of the human race.\u00a0 We are portrayed as sexual predators, disease spreading sociopaths, self-centered narcissistic parasites on society.\u00a0 We are said to be shallow, vain, self-centered and interested only in self gratification on the one hand, and self-hating, self-destructive and miserable on the other.\u00a0 When we are not dangerous sociopaths we are contemptible faggots.\u00a0 The other part is the silencing of gay voices.\u00a0 Where we are not allowed to tell our own stories, in our own voices, where social invisibility is imposed upon us, as though we are a dirty secret best kept away from view, the only voices that are heard, are the voices of those who hate us.\u00a0 The hatemongers go unanswered, and this is what happens…<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n Oh…and this…<\/p>\n I now feel very fortunate that I was able to spend some private time with Matt last summer during my vacation from Saudi Arabia. We sat and talked. I told Matt that he was my hero and that he was the toughest man that I had ever known. When I said that, I bowed down to him out of respect for his ability to continue to smile and keep a positive attitude during all the trials and tribulations that he had gone through. He just laughed. I also told him how proud I was because of what he had accomplished and what he was trying to accomplish. The last thing I said to Matt was that I loved him, and he said he loved me. That was the last private conversation that I ever had with him.<\/p>\n Impact on my life? My life will never be the same. I miss Matt terribly. I think about him all the time\u2014at odd moments when some little thing reminds me of him; when I walk by the refrigerator and see the pictures of him and his brother that we\u2019ve always kept on the door; at special times of the year, like the first day of classes at UW or opening day of sage chicken hunting. I keep wondering almost the same thing that I did when I first saw him in the hospital. What would we have become? How would he have changed his piece of the world to make it better?<\/p>\n Impact on my life? I feel a tremendous sense of guilt. Why wasn\u2019t I there when he needed me most? Why didn\u2019t I spend more time with him? Why didn\u2019t I try to find another type of profession so that I could have been available to spend more time with him as he grew up? What could I have done to be a better father and friend? How do I get an answer to those questions now? The only one who can answer them is Matt. These questions will be with me for the rest of my life. What makes it worse for me is knowing that his mother and brother will have similar unanswered questions.<\/p>\n Impact on my life? In addition to losing my son, I lost my father on November 4, 1998. The stress of the entire affair was too much for him. Dad watched Matt grow up. He taught him how to hunt, fish, camp, ride horses, and love the state of Wyoming. Matt, Logan, dad, and I would spend two to three weeks camping in the mountains at different times of the year\u2014to hunt, to fish, and to goof off. Matt learned to cook over an open fire, tell fishing stories about the one that got away, and to drive a truck from my father. Three weeks before Matt went to the Fireside Bar for the last time, my parents saw Matt in Laramie. In addition, my father tried calling Matt the night that he was beaten but received no answer. He never got over the guilt of not trying earlier. The additional strain of the hospital vigil, being in the hospital room with Matt when he died, the funeral services with all the media attention and the protesters, [and] helping Judy and me clean out Matt\u2019s apartment in Laramie a few days later was too much. Three weeks after Matt\u2019s death, dad died. Dad told me after the funeral that he never expected to outlive Matt. The stress and the grief were just too much for him. Impact on my life? How can my life ever be the same again?<\/p>\n Excerpt of Dennis Shepard’s Statements to the Court \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n There are two parts to the culture of violence toward gay people…and to all minorities.\u00a0 The first is hate.\u00a0 The second is that silencing of the voices of the hated, which allows hate to go unchallenged and unquestioned.\u00a0 Last week a young Australian diver, after a difficult struggle to come back from burnout and defeat, won a gold medal for the 10 meter dive, beating out the best of the Chinese diving team.\u00a0 You were allowed to know that.\u00a0 He is openly gay, and his parents and his lover were there to support him in his quest for the gold.\u00a0 He said his boyfriend was part of the support network that made his dream possible. \u00a0You weren’t allowed to know that.\u00a0 Because then you might start wondering about all those things you were taught about homosexuals.\u00a0<\/p>\n And then you might start wondering why the news media doesn’t give a damn.<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n You may have heard that an Australian named Matthew Mitcham won the gold in the 10 meter diving event.\u00a0 You may have heard that in doing so, he broke the Chinese sweep of the diving events.\u00a0 You may have heard that a string of disappointments some years ago caused him to drop out of the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[10,11,34,18,37,99,46],"class_list":["post-1499","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-anti-gay-violence","tag-gays-in-the-media","tag-george-bushs-america","tag-gratuitous-anti-gay-hate","tag-our-feckless-news-media","tag-the-human-status","tag-the-kultar-kampf"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1499","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1499"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1499\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1499"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1499"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1499"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}\n
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