{"id":13585,"date":"2025-03-03T07:23:55","date_gmt":"2025-03-03T12:23:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/?p=13585"},"modified":"2025-03-03T07:23:55","modified_gmt":"2025-03-03T12:23:55","slug":"confronting-old-age-one-denial-at-a-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/13585","title":{"rendered":"Confronting Old Age, One Denial At A Time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aging sneaks up on you slyly. Unless you have a bad illness that ages you rapidly, or genes that do the same, you hardly ever notice that you&#8217;re loosing things like stamina and flexibility. Until you pull a muscle doing something you did a zillion times before and your body didn&#8217;t complain about it. There&#8217;s a character in a Hemmingway novel who is asked how he went broke, and he replied &#8220;Gradually then suddenly.&#8221; Growing old is like that. At least it&#8217;s been like that for me.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;ve noticed I have it good by comparison with a bunch of my kidhood peers. I still get a lot of complements on how young I look for my age (71). But that might mostly be because of something a shrink I went to once told me, that I &#8220;present young&#8221;. Mindset does affect appearance. In many ways I still have this inner point of view that I&#8217;m a teenager or at best a young adult.<\/p>\n<p>So this morning at Disney world, as I&#8217;m coaxing my stiff body into my clothes for a walk around Saratoga Springs (I did a lot of walking yesterday and I&#8217;ll probably do that again today), that I have to realize once again that I&#8217;m Not a young adult. I&#8217;m an old man. It still mostly doesn&#8217;t bother me, or at any rate I can ignore it most of the time. It&#8217;s when I can&#8217;t that I wish I had my twenty-something body back again. But this morning I had a thought: <em>what if I actually could be transported back into my twenty-something body again, even if just for an hour or two while I stroll around the parks here. Would it be a pleasant couple hours, or would it shock me to actually see how much aging as taken away from my body over the decades, that I haven&#8217;t really noticed because it all happened so gradually?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Maybe its just as well I don&#8217;t have that kind of magic.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aging sneaks up on you slyly. Unless you have a bad illness that ages you rapidly, or genes that do the same, you hardly ever notice that you&#8217;re loosing things like stamina and flexibility. Until you pull a muscle doing something you did a zillion times before and your body didn&#8217;t complain about it. There&#8217;s [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[157],"class_list":["post-13585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","tag-the-old-man-chronicles"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13585"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13585\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13586,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13585\/revisions\/13586"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brucegarrett.com\/brucelog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}