http://brucegarrett.com/brucelog/1310 Bruce Garrett's Weblog. Essays and musings on my life and my world. Thu, 26 Aug 2010 20:52:37 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 http://brucegarrett.com/brucelog/1310/comment-page-1#comment-71990 The Story So Far… » Blog Archive » You Know…My Gaydar Maybe Wasn’t All That Bad After All… Wed, 06 Aug 2008 20:27:47 +0000 http://brucegarrett.com/brucelog/1310#comment-71990 [...] As I said in a previous post, I've had this track record in my dating life of falling for guys who later claimed to be completely, perfectly, absolutely heterosexual.  Yet my shyness when it comes to dating nearly immobilizes me, and I am not one of those who likes to hit on straight guys by any means.  And yes, there are gay guys like that.  Think of it as the gay male version of a straight guy who thinks lesbians are hot.  I am not anything like that guy.  I need someone who is on the same page as me.  Very much so.  And between that and my shyness I have never, Never approached any guy who wasn't pinging my gaydar pretty solidly...or so I thought at the time.  [...] [...] As I said in a previous post, I’ve had this track record in my dating life of falling for guys who later claimed to be completely, perfectly, absolutely heterosexual.  Yet my shyness when it comes to dating nearly immobilizes me, and I am not one of those who likes to hit on straight guys by any means.  And yes, there are gay guys like that.  Think of it as the gay male version of a straight guy who thinks lesbians are hot.  I am not anything like that guy.  I need someone who is on the same page as me.  Very much so.  And between that and my shyness I have never, Never approached any guy who wasn’t pinging my gaydar pretty solidly…or so I thought at the time.  [...]

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